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Congratulations!

You’re pregnant!!! These are two words that will change your life forever. So many random thoughts and fears go through your mind. Of course, it is vital to prepare yourself mentally for a newborn. And it doesn’t matter what number pregnancy this is for you. You will still need to be mentally prepared. I know because I have ten children.

We all know that babies are adorable and sweet. However, on the other hand, babies are a lot of work. Also, babies change your life tremendously. Adjusting to a newborn is an emotional rollercoaster. Every time I found out I was pregnant, I would begin to prepare myself mentally. First of all, the thought of having a baby puts my mind into overdrive, mainly because I’m an over-thinker. There is always that thought of if I’m ready for a baby. Now, this is just a list I put together to help you prepare mentally for your baby. I hope my tips will be helpful to you.

Major Life Change

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First of all, take a deep breath. You have to relax because you’re going to be a mom. Listen to some relaxing music, read a book, take a walk, and eat right. Don’t Stress! The most significant part of preparing for your baby is accepting how your life is going to change. After you have a baby, you will have to adjust your life around your baby. For example, if you are a spontaneous person, you may have to adjust to becoming a planner. I mean, with a baby in your life you have to take a little bit more time to get ready. But the best part about this life change is that this little person will love you for life.

Pressure From Others

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Of course, when you announce your pregnancy, everyone has advice. They want to tell you how to do everything. Usually, their intentions are good. But it can make you feel overwhelmed. People love to tell you what you are doing wrong and what they did when they were parents. Times change, and every situation differs. I believe experience is the best teacher. However, you can take the advice that you think is helpful and don’t worry about the rest.

Create A Plan

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 You have to create a plan just for you. After the baby is born, you have to take care of yourself too. Depression is real, and it can happen after you have your baby. You must realize when you need help. For example, if you have thoughts of hurting yourself or your baby. It is vital to seek medical attention. Also, it is a good idea to have someone come over to assist you with the baby. So choose a few people that may be able to help you after you have the baby. Be sure to inform your spouse about your plan.

Classes And Books

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There are plenty of courses on childcare. This website provides online parenting classes. However, if you choose to attend classes in person, you can check the resources where you live. These classes will help you learn different ways to take care of your baby. Some courses are offered at the hospital, as well. You can learn about breastfeeding, how to hold the baby, feeding the baby, and the different ways to burp a baby.  If you prefer not to attend class, there are books to read.

Commitment To Goals

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Everyone has goals, but everyone does not always keep them. It is essential to stay committed to your goals, even after you have the baby. It is easy to lose focus and forget your dreams after you have the baby. Because your world now revolves around your beautiful baby. The main goal is to put your ideas in action. However, you may have to change your dreams to fit in with your new lifestyle. In this case, that is perfectly fine. It happens to the best of us. Above all, you must strive to reach your dream. 

Save Money

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It is especially important to save money to prepare for your baby. You have to think ahead. Save money here and there. And use coupons whenever possible. Babies are costly. For example, think about how much money you will spend on diapers alone in the first year. I bought pampers when I was in my third trimester because they were on sale. Budgeting helps out a lot. Look at this website about its about saving money. Trust me this is one step you will genuinely want to do.

Vacation

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Take a vacation before the baby comes. A vacation allows you to have some fun before the baby arrives. It doesn’t have to be expensive. If you can take some time off from work and enjoy a week at the spa. Either way, it is good to get away because your baby will have to travel with you everywhere. So it is vital to go now while you don’t have the baby. Not having a baby on vacation means luggage for only two and some alone time.

Babysit

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I know this might sound strange. But, yes, babysit every chance you get. When you babysit, that is the perfect way to practice for your baby. If you spend a lot of time with babies, you will know what to expect. Babysitting helped me out a lot. Fortunately, once I had my first child, I knew how to change his diapers, feed him, etc. Now you won’t learn everything about handling a baby. But you will learn enough to help you become mentally prepared to take care of your baby.

House Cleaning

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I love having a clean house. And I understand the importance of staying on schedule. However, once you have a baby, the baby controls your day. Your priorities have changed, and yes, somethings will not get done. You have to be prepared to let your dreams of being organized go. I know how difficult this is. However, when I had my children. I didn’t feel like doing anything. A new baby can be exhausting. I felt like I was a disgrace as a mother. Because I didn’t feel like doing anything, prepare yourself mentally for days when you will be off schedule and don’t feel like doing anything. It’s an adjustment, but it’s part of being a mom.

Bonding

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Although it may be right for some women but not for all , sometimes bonding between mother and child happens right away. However, if this does not occur for you, do not beat yourself up over it. There are plenty of mothers who can’t even get their babies to breastfeed, which is perfectly normal. The bonding process can be complicated if you have had a C-section or your baby had to get rushed away to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU). The pain of childbirth can also make it difficult to bond. Not to mention that developing postpartum depression is another reason why mothers do not bond with their babies. In the meantime, bonding can happen within a couple of weeks or a couple of months.

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